Refugee Resettlement

Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give,
not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.
2 Corinthians 9:7

This family (pictured above) settled in Los Angeles last year. Those happy faces are due to the generosity of donors like our parishioners who help them  transition to homes in the U.S. Thank you for supporting us.

Housing is still the biggest hurdle for these families. They are looking for 2 bedroom apartments under $2,000 and 3 bedroom apartments under $3,000 in the Fremont, Newark, Union City or Milpitas areas.  If you know of any available rentals, please contact Don Kaefer .

If you want to buy items to donate, here is an updated list of some basic items we are short of in the shed: 2 qt. pitchers, hand mixers, cutting boards, hot water pots, can openers, tongs, potato peelers, twin blankets, plain twin sheets (we have several for children),  clothes hangers, hand towels and face cloths, irons, ironing boards, vacuums, brooms and plastic buckets.  All monetary donations are helpful for us to buy items not in the shed. Contact Don Kaefer   at 510-427-3007 or  for more information.

10/1/22 The Mohamed Family arrived in Fremont in their 2 bedroom apartment on September 10, 2022. IRC supplied 3 twin bed mattresses and 1 full bed, some blankets, 2 stock pots, a few dishes and utensils, a table with 4 chairs and a dresser.  Mohamad and his 4 sons, aged 21, 17, 13 and 8 are settling in as best they can. While their father works, the oldest son, Sadar,  has learned to cook from You Tube and cares for the younger boys who are enrolled in schools. Where is mom? She and her 3 daughters and 2 younger sons are in Afghanistan waiting for passports.

Meanwhile, our Refugee Team pulled sheets, blankets and pillows, kitchen and bath supplies, a dresser and nightstand from the shed to add a bit of comfort and convenience to their lives. Thanks to a generous donor, we were also able to give them a computer and even some clothing to give the boys a little variety.

8/28/22  Nestor, Halyna and their son, Vasyl Roshko from Ukrania have settled in San Jose wading through red tape and government forms they need before they can get jobs and some financial support. Nestor worked in construction, Halyna taught english and Vasyl worked in technology.  They are all concerned about getting jobs here and grateful that we were able to help them get settled into their apartment with beds, linens, dishes, pots and pans, utensils and other basics donated.

7/26/22 There was a break in families around Easter until after the Mission 225 Festival June 11 & 12. We continued to collect donations and on June 30th we met Fardeen and his wife who have 4 children: 3 girls aged 1.5, 8 & 10 years old and a 6 year old son. We had beds, bedding, dressers, nightstands, a computer desk and complete kitchen and bathroom supplies for them. In Mid July we were asked to help 2 small families: Naqibullah and his wife have a 3 year old and Abdul Hakim and his wife are expecting a baby boy. Two families, even small ones, need basics for all rooms. International Rescue Committee (IRC) took the lead on Naqibullah’s apartment, but we were able to provide a sofa, nightstands, table & chairs and a TV stand. The Refugee Team provided an entire apartment for Hakim – kitchen and bathroom supplies, queen bed, mattress and bedding, loveseat, coffee table, lamps, nightstand, dresser, chairs and area rug. We are looking for a crib or travel bed for the new baby and car seat so they can safely bring him home.

4/18/22/ We were given a new family of six, the Sultan Family, at the end of March: father and mother, two children, grandma and aunt. A three bedroom apartment or home to rent was difficult to find, so after a month of hunting, they were scheduled to rent 2 one bedroom apartments.  Through the generosity of many, we were able to accept and store almost everything they would need as well as increase a few basic items in our shed for future recipients during that month. The date was set for them to sign a lease and pick up keys on Tuesday,April 12 – we would deliver beds, blankets, sheets, towels, kithenware, etc. on Wednesday.

But there was a change in plans Tuesday afternoon. The Sultan Family had been offered free rent for one year in a furnished home in Carmel! So, they do not need our assistance, but there are other IRC families who do not yet have homes that we will be called to help support when housing is found.

For now, we are ready for a new family. IRC will tell us when a one is ready. Thank you for your help in making this possible. We will share more when we know more.

2/27/22  We have been able to supply families with donated small items stored for just this purpose. However, our stored supplies are getting low. A quick inventory shows we need: laundry baskets, lamps, sets of dishes and utensils, rice cookers, coffee pots, 9×13 baking pans, measuring cups and spoons, small/medium & large sauce pans, cooking utensils and bath/hand & face towels. We also have had to purchase mattresses for beds. If you can supply any of these items, or make a donation to cover some of the costs, please contact Don Kaefer at or 510-427-3007. Please send items to the church office (43148 Mission Blvd.) if you purchase them online. We could not do this without the support of so many. Thank you!

2/20/22 Yesterday the Ahmad Farhad family took possession of their new apartment in Fremont. Through donations, we were able to provide most of their needs and from this website a laptop and lamps have been donated giving them access to the internet – job applications – and light for the apartment that only had a hall and bathroom ceiling lights.  

1.22.2022  Our team has met with three families who are still looking for apartments. Because the families do not yet have housing, we are not sure what they will need. However we have been asked to find a coffee table for one family and another family is in need of a single or double baby stroller. If you have either of these items, please contact Don Kaefer.

12.27.2021  While Abubakar and Chakawa continue to search for a rental, our team is looking forward to meeting another family this week. Please continue to check this website for more information on our new family and how you can help.

12.13.2021 The Refugee Team met with a new Afghan family in preparation to look at apartments. Abdul and Chakawa have three children: two sons, Abubakar (13) and Shahil (11) and a 4 year old daughter, Aysha. Chakawa’s younger sister, Shaban , has also immigrated with them. They are looking at apartments and townhouses in Fremont and hope to finalize one with the help of IRC soon.

11.28.2021   Our recent Afghan family – Amanullah and Sabera , their daughters, Hadia (15), Behna (14), Hasti (11) and son, Kayarsh (6). Except for Kayarsh, they all speak English well and are ready to immerse themselves into the community. They have an apartment in Fremont, and thanks to monetary donations and items you shipped to us, they are comfortable in their new home. We will continue to work with them and IRC.

All these Afghan families continue to need our prayers for the safety of their relatives and friends who have not been able to leave the country.

Thanks to many donors and items donated from the parish, our Refugee Resettlement Team will be able to continue to help more families get settled into new homes in the Bay Area.

September 2021 we were able to support the following families:

A family of five (parents and three boys ages 3, 6 & 8) resides in a two bedroom apartment in Sunnyvale. We were able to provide basic home needs: kitchen table and chairs, pots, pans, utensils, dishes, bedroom linens, a sleeper sofa and TV and stand.

A family of six has settled in a two bedroom apartment in Fremont just a few blocks from the Hub. Zahedullah and Zaheer are twelve year old twins, Akseer is 8 and Rashid is 3.5 years old. Our team provided 2 sofas, dining table and chairs, computer, printer, computer table and rug, blankets, bedding, two bikes and bike helmets.

A family were set up in a small apartment with no kitchen in San Jose that proved too small for the family of five. We were able to help them find a larger apartment in Fremont and furnished it with donated dining table and chairs, two couches, TV and stand, a coffee table, rug, computer chair, dishes and kitchen items, bunk beds and linens and a king size bed with storage, TV and stand.

A young couple needed a couch and table. We were able to give them a sleeper couch, dining room set and lamp.

These are only four families who recently fled from Afghanistan. They have told us of family and friends still there: fathers and brothers who are hiding from the Taliban. Many worked for the United States in some capacity and are being hunted; others were judges and worked in the police force who sent Taliban prisoners to jail. Those released prisoners are now looking for those judges and police; and so many others who just want to get away from the Taliban rule that includes no education for girls and burkas for women.

Our team will continue to assist families from any country in the future through the International Refugee Committee (IRC). All refugees and immigrants are in need of our help and prayers.

“Let brotherly love continue.  Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers,

for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.” Hebrews 13:1-2

To help these families with expenses, please make monetary donations payable to St. Joseph Parish with a memo to “The Refugee Committee”. If you would like to join the parish Refugee Resettlement Team, please contact Bill Norwalk ( or 510-710-1712).

  – a family of six;